In the beginning of a relationship sex is passionate and outrageous.
Remember those few moments when you were not ripping each others clothes off, how you would replay n your mind the sex from the night before and early morning, the intensity of your orgasm, the subtle looks your lover would give you as you passed her way. As you find yourself daydreaming about your lovers naked body and all the great sex that you would have when you see her again. It was at this point in time when sex had a hold of your body, mind, and soul.
However as time moves forward sex in a relationship changes. Slowly your mind sobers up from the sex-intoxicated state and returns you back to your normal state of reality. Soon enough you find yourselves stuck in the same old routine in desperate need of something to spice up your sex life.
The Following are some simple steps you can take to add that flavor and spice to your life:
1. Add some variety to your sex positions
We all do it at first we try any position we can get into but soon enough you find yourself doing it one of three positions and both you and your Lover both know what is going on no one is surprised by anything. However there are many sex manuals on the web that can give you some different ideas on positions. The Ultimate Sex Guide is a great choice which would allow you to explore different positions during each of your Love making bouts.
2. Use Sexual Creams, Lotions, and Oils
Put that bottle of astroglide or K-Y Jelly in the trash and begin using lubricants that where meant to increase the sensations of sex for both parties. L-Arginine based creams offer the best stimulation as science has discovered that this particular protein when rubbed directly on the clitoris helps increase the flow of blood to the genital tissues (the vagina and clitoris) which in turn allows women to experiences stronger and in some cases their very first orgasm. Vigorelle is an excellent product to start with for more info click here.
3. Begin Maintaining a Healthy Lifestyle
Smoking Cigarettes, Drinking too much alcohol, and a poor diet all can cause a decrease in your libido so in turn eliminating any of these factors from your life will cause an increase in libido.
